The Power With Words
Why Every Word You Say Matters
The Power With Words
If I only speak positive words, is it possible to be a negative person?
Or my philosophy: If I only speak positive words, I can only be a positive person.
Words
The power with words is real. What we put out comes back. What we say becomes true. Words are vibrations. They are spells. And they influence both our inner and outer worlds.
Words have weight. Words shape water. Words shape emotion. Words shape matter.
I started discovering the depth of words through journaling, through coaching, through prayer, and through my connection with God. And it became clear to me that the English language is actually the language of the soul in human form. It gives us structure, yes. And it also gives us freedom. The freedom to choose how we shape energy with our voice.
We all know the classic example: Speak love to your plants and they thrive. Speak hate to the same plant and it begins to decay. The words shift the energy.
To all you parents out there, this is a great exercise to show your kids that their words are everything and hold power. It gets them noticing nature, paying attention to their words, and all of you can be in the process together. Talk to the plants. Let them speak too.
Dr. Emoto showed us this with water. The vibration of each word changes the crystalline structure of what it touches.
Now apply that to the body which is made up of 70 percent water.
Words have a huge impact on our health. Every word you say is being absorbed into all of the tissues.
Word Awareness Is Soul Awareness
In every moment, you have a choice: to speak from the ego or to speak from the soul. Every negative word has a positive opposite:
Never forget / Always remember
I cannot sleep / I used to struggle with sleep, and now I...
I have to / I get to
Sorry / Thank you
The way you phrase something rewires your body. It can either tie you up in knots or bring you into flow.
Even when you go back and tell a story from your past, if you keep using the same negative words to describe it, you keep reliving the same emotional pattern. Rephrase it. Retell it with lighter, more empowering language. Your story stays the same yet the response from your body changes.
The English Language is Full of Clues
LISTEN contains the word SILENT
DOG is GOD in reverse
NOW backwards is WON
HEART and EARTH share the same qualities to life, respect both
BELIEVE contains the word LIE
And more:
A SENTENCE is both a line of words and a punishment
A SPELL is both a casting of magic and how we form letters
A KNOT can be untied — and the word "not" often hides the truth
We say "I am tired," "I am stressed," "I am old" — and we wonder why we feel it. Your "I am" is your truth, always protect what words follow I am.
Truth or Try?
Many people use wishy-washy words:
I might
I could
Hopefully
Maybe
These are words we use when we are avoiding being honest. They are placeholders for "No," when we do not want to deal with the reaction of someone. Your soul knows the truth. And when you speak against that truth, you are lying to your own being.
Instead:
Say "I will" or say "I will not"
Say "I know" or say nothing
Say "I feel" if you cannot say "I know"
Replace 'Sorry' With 'Thank You'
Instead of "Sorry I am late" say "Thank you for your patience."
Instead of "I am sorry for your loss" say "Thank you for the joy they gave."
Thank you is truth. Sorry is sorrow.
Practice Prompt
For the next few days:
Pay attention to the words you type, text, or speak
Replace each negative word with its positive opposite
End your sentences with an uplifting truth
And if you are telling an old story: rewrite it, rephrase it, be kinder to yourself.
Words are seeds. And they grow roots inside the body.
Speak like you know the garden is listening.
Let me know how your relationship with words is shifting. And if you would like to receive your own Soul Fingerprint through writing, reach out anytime.
Harry The Soul Coach




This is a subject I’ve been wrestling with. I’m interested in what you think about cathartic poetry, which I’m writing to help me (and others) make sense of, and come to terms with, the abuse in a past relationship. I felt confused and that I had no control and because my partner was a covert narcissist, no one could see what was going on. The words I use are my way of taking back some control, even if anonymously. The words used against me harmed me, but these allow me to form my expediences in a way that clarify what happened out of all the manipulation. Is this positive? Is it negative? Is it important to use these words to help those still in a situation like this, so they can recognise the gaslighting and get out, or just feel that someone else has been there and they understand? It can be so confusing and you can feel powerless, weak, ashamed. Are my words, recreating those past experiences, negative, if they help a person move on from what their mind has been trapped in for so long?
This is brilliant and easy to understand.